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The consolation is love, if you can hold on to it. But at 55, menopause was an ambush. For many, pornography becomes a useful tool to spark immediately accessible sexuality, though arguably creates as many casualties as it does satisfied customers. I have stumbled into a live-in relationship with a brilliant but macho narcissist who conducted an athletic and enthusiastic seduction of other women on a weekly basis, but for 10 months was a sexual paradise. The minor irritations and major annoyances of an enduring relationship all find expression in the bedroom with the regularity, or infrequency, of your love-making, serving as a rough guide to the state of your union.

What will my 70s and 80s will bring?

Women and desire: the six ages of sex

The satisfying, unifying rewards of making love — increased intimacy, better sleep, less stress — become a treat to be traded rather than a part of our daily routine. I made fun of post-religious wedding rituals, but felt the warmth of participation. If some octogenarians are still capable of an erection sufficient for penetrative sex, it is because they feel desired. What will my 70s and 80s will bring? When I began my 30s, I did not watch porn and had no interest in it. When I turned 20, I broke up with a boyfriend and invested in two vibrators in the hope of achieving the elusive internal orgasm.